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Sunday, December 2, 2007
Advent Thought
Pretty true in the phrase at the end.
Sometimes we spend time on who is responsible or who to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people you know. We miss out some warmth in human relationship to gie each other support. Treasure what you have.
A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes.
When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for the office so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.
The boy playfully went to the medicine bottle and, fascinated with its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child showed signs of poisoning the mother took him to the hospital, where he died.
The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband…
When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.
QUESTIONS:
1. What were the four words?
2. What is the implication of this story?
Check with the answers only after you have tried to come up with your own.
Please scroll down.
ANSWER:
The husband just said “I LOVE YOU DARLING.”
The husband’s totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior. He is indeed a genius in human relationships.
The child is dead. He can never come back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.
If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world.
To be happy with a man you must understand him a lot and love him a little.
To be happy with a woman you must understand her a lot and love her with all your heart.
“A journey of a thousand miles, begins with but with a single step. Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears AND you will find THINGS ARE ACTUALLY NOT SO DIFFICULT AS YOU THINK.”
Fr.Ginu mathilakathu cmi
Saturday, September 29, 2007
A young and successful executive was traveling down a neighborhood street, going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar. He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars and slowed down when he thought he saw something.
As his car passed, no children appeared. Instead, a brick smashed into the Jag's side door! He slammed on the brakes and backed the Jag back to the spot where the brick had been thrown.
The angry driver then jumped out of the car, grabbed the nearest kid and pushed him up against a parked car shouting, "What was that all about and who are you? Just what the heck are you doing? That's a new car and that brick you threw is going to cost a lot of money. Why did you do it?"
The young boy was apologetic. "Please, mister...please, I'm sorry but I didn't know what else to do," He pleaded. "I threw the brick because no one else would stop..."
With tears dripping down his face and off his chin, the youth pointed to a spot just around a parked car. "It's my brother, "he said. "He rolled off the curb and fell out of his wheelchair and I can't lift him up."
Now sobbing, the boy asked the stunned executive, "Would you please help me get him back into his wheelchair? He's hurt and he's too heavy for me." Moved beyond words, the driver tried to swallow the rapidly swelling lump in his throat. He hurriedly lifted the handicapped boy back into the wheelchair, then took out a linen handkerchief and dabbed at the fresh scrapes and cuts. A quick look told him everything was going to be okay. Thank you and may God bless you," the grateful child told\n the stranger.
Now sobbing, the boy asked the stunned executive, "Would you please help me get him back into his wheelchair? He's hurt and he's too heavy for me."
Moved beyond words, the driver tried to swallow the rapidly swelling lump in his throat. He hurriedly lifted the handicapped boy back into the wheelchair, then took out a linen handkerchief and dabbed at the fresh scrapes and cuts. A quick look told him everything was going to be okay.
"Thank you and may God bless you," the grateful child told the stranger.
Too shook up for words, the man simply watched the boy push his wheelchair-bound brother down the sidewalk toward their home. It was a long, slow walk back to the Jaguar. The damage was very noticeable, but the driver never bothered to repair the dented side door. He kept the dent there to remind him of this message: "Don't go through life so fast\n that someone has to throw a brick at you to get your attention!" God whispers in our souls and speaks to our hearts. Sometimes when we don't have time to listen, He has to throw a brick at us. It's our choice to listen or not. //-->
Too shook up for words, the man simply watched the boy push his wheelchair-bound brother down the sidewalk toward their home.
It was a long, slow walk back to the Jaguar. The damage was very noticeable, but the driver never bothered to repair the dented side door. He kept the dent there to remind him of this message: "Don't go through life so fast that someone has to throw a brick at you to get your attention!"
God whispers in our souls and speaks to our hearts. Sometimes when we don't have time to listen, He has to throw a brick at us. It's our choice to listen or not.
Thought for the Day:
If God had a refrigerator, your picture would be on it.
If He had a wallet, your photo would be in it.
He sends you flowers every spring.
He sends you a sunrise every morning Face it, friend - He is crazy about you! \>God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow,sun without rain, but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way. ",1]
He sends you a sunrise every morning Face it, friend - He is crazy about you!
Send this to every "beautiful person" you wish to bless.
God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow,sun without rain, but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way.
If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.
Read this line very slowly and let it sink in...
If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.
Friday, September 7, 2007
Birthday of our Mother

Friday, August 24, 2007
Monday, August 13, 2007
YES ..IS IT lIFE..??
God created the dogand said to him:"You will guard the house of man. You will be his best Friend.You will eat the scraps that he gives you and you will live 30 years. You will be a dog. " *The dog answered: "Sir, to live 30 years is too much,give me only 15 years." God granted his wish.
God created the monkey and said to him:"You will be a monkey. You will swing from branch to branch doing tricks.You will be amusing and you will live 20 years. " The monkey answered:"To live 20 years is too much, give me only 10 years."God granted his wish.
Finally God created man and said to him:"You will be man, the only rational creature on the face of the earth.You will use your intelligence to become master over all the animals.. You will dominate the world and you will live 20 years." *Man responded:"Sir, I will be a man but to live only20 years is very little,give me the 30 years that the donkey refused,the 15 years that the dog did not want and the 10 years the monkey refused." God granted man's wish .................................................................
And since then, man lives
20 years as a man
marries and spends30 years like a donkey,working and carrying all the burdens on his back.Then when his children are grown,he lives 15 years like a dog taking care of the house and eating whatever is given to him,so that when he is old,he can retire and live 10 years like a monkey,going from house to house and from one son ordaughter to another doing tricks to amuse his grandchildren.
That's Life.Is'nt it ??????????*
Fr.Ginu
Saturday, June 16, 2007
Lady : Why Do you like me .. ? Why Do you Love me..?Man : I can't tell the reason. But I really like you...
You can't even tell me the reason... how can you say you like me? I really don't know the reason, but I can prove that I love you.My friend's boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but not you. Ok..ok Erm... because you are because your voice is The lady felt very satisfied with the man's answer. Unfortunately, a few days later, the Lady met with an accident and went into the coma stage. The Guy then placed a letter by her side, and here is the content –Lady : You can't even tell me the reason... how can you say you like me?
How can you say you love me?
Man : I really don't know the reason, but I can prove that I love you.Lady : Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reason.
My friend's boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but not you.
Man : Ok..ok Erm... because you are beautiful,because your voice is sweet, because you are caring,because you are loving, because you are thoughtful,because of your smile, because of your every movements.The lady felt very satisfied with the man's answer. Unfortunately, a few days later, the Lady met with an accident and went into the coma stage. The Guy then placed a letter by her side, and here is the content –
Darling,Because of your sweet voice that I love you...Now can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.Because of your care and concern that I like you. Now that you cannot Because of your smile, because of your every movement that I love you...Now can you smile? Now can you move? No, therefore, I cannot love you.If love needs a reason, like now, there is no reason for me to love you anymore. Does love need a reason? NO!Therefore, I still love you. And love doesn't need a reason. );
Darling,
Because of your sweet voice that I love you...Now can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.
Because of your care and concern that I like you. Now that you cannot
show them, therefore I cannot love you.
Because of your smile, because of your every movement that I love you...Now can you smile? Now can you move? No, therefore, I cannot love you.
If love needs a reason, like now, there is no reason for me to love you anymore.
Does love need a reason? NO!
Therefore, I still love you. And love doesn't need a reason.
Relationships are\n hard to handle, might even seem impossible at times. There will be many fights and many quarrels, many disagreements and many tears. The easiest thing would be to give up. But if we spent half the energy we use in fighting with each other, and spend that energy in fighting to keep the relationship strong, then that is love. Remember, in a relationship, giving up is not the solution.Disagreements, fights and quarrels will always be there. But you must always fight harder to stay together. Some fights are truly worth fighting! SMILE !
Relationships are hard to handle, might even seem impossible at times. There will be many fights and many quarrels, many disagreements and many tears.
The easiest thing would be to give up. But if we spent half the energy we use in fighting with each other, and spend that energy in fighting to keep the relationship strong, then that is love. Remember, in a relationship, giving up is not the solution.
Disagreements, fights and quarrels will always be there. But you must always fight harder to stay together. Some fights are truly worth fighting! SMILE !
Wednesday, June 6, 2007
Our father
inspirational messages
A LIGHT for EVERY SHADOW
A PLAN for EVERY TOMORROW
A KEY for EVERY PROBLEM and
JOY for EVERY SORROW.
ENJOY GOD’S GIFTS TODAY.
We lose the joy of living in the present
when we worry about the future.
Let God take care of tomorrow and
give your best today.
MEASURING LIFE by WHAT OTHERS DO to YOU
MAY DISAPPOINT YOU BUT
MEASURING LIFE by WHAT YOU DO to OTHERS
WILL ADD MORE MEANING to YOUR LIFE.
Worry is like a rocking chair,
it gives you something to do
but it gets you nowhere.
So get rid of your worries and
enjoy life as a wonderful gift from God.
A WORD of LOVE GIVES INSPIRATION to LIFE
A WORD of CARE GIVES HAPPINESS to THE HEART and
A WORD of GOD GIVES DIRECTION and
MEANING to OUR LIVES.
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Thursday, May 31, 2007
HAVE LITTLE FUN...FROM BIBLE
It doesn't hurt to have a little biblical
humor to start the day......
Q. What kind of man was Boaz before he married Ruth?
A. Ruthless.
Q. What do they call pastors in Germany ?
A. German Shepherds.
Q. Who was the greatest financier in the Bible?
A. Noah He was floating his stock while
everyone else was in liquidation.
Q. Who was the greatest female financier in the Bible?
A. Pharaoh's daughter.
She went down to the bank of the Nile and drew out a
little prophet.
Q. What kind of motor vehicles are in the Bible?
A. Jehovah drove Adam and Eve out of the Garden in a Fury. David's Triumph was heard throughout the land.
Also, probably a Honda, because the apostles were all in one Accord.
Q.. Who was the greatest comedian in the Bible?
A. Samson. He brought the house down.
Q. What excuse did Adam give to his children
as to why he no longer lived in Eden ?
A. Your mother ate us out of house and home.
Q. Which servant of God was the most
flagrant lawbreaker in the Bible?
A. Moses.
He broke all 10 commandments at once.
Q. Which area of Palestine was especially wealthy?
A. The area around Jordan . The banks were always overflowing.
Q. Who is the greatest babysitter mentioned in the Bible?
A. David. He rocked Goliath to a very deep sleep.
Smiles from the Bible
It doesn't hurt to have a little biblical
humor to start the day......
Q. What kind of man was Boaz before he married Ruth?
A. Ruthless.
Q. What do they call pastors in Germany ?
A. German Shepherds.
Q. Who was the greatest financier in the Bible?
A. Noah He was floating his stock while
everyone else was in liquidation.
Q. Who was the greatest female financier in the Bible?
A. Pharaoh's daughter.
She went down to the bank of the Nile and drew out a
little prophet.
Q. What kind of motor vehicles are in the Bible?
A. Jehovah drove Adam and Eve out of the Garden in a Fury. David's Triumph was heard throughout the land.
Also, probably a Honda, because the apostles were all in one Accord.
Q.. Who was the greatest comedian in the Bible?
A. Samson. He brought the house down.
Q. What excuse did Adam give to his children
as to why he no longer lived in Eden ?
A. Your mother ate us out of house and home.
Q. Which servant of God was the most
flagrant lawbreaker in the Bible?
A. Moses.
He broke all 10 commandments at once.
Q. Which area of Palestine was especially wealthy?
A. The area around Jordan . The banks were always overflowing.
Q. Who is the greatest babysitter mentioned in the Bible?
A. David. He rocked Goliath to a very deep sleep.
Q. Which Bible character had no parents?
A. Joshua, son of Nun.
Q. Why didn't they play cards on the Ark ?
A. Because Noah was standing on the deck. (Groan...)
PS... Did you know it's a sin for a woman to make coffee?
Yup, it's in the Bible. It says . . . "He-brews"
Q. Which Bible character had no parents?
A. Joshua, son of Nun.
Q. Why didn't they play cards on the Ark ?
A. Because Noah was standing on the deck. (Groan...)
PS... Did you know it's a sin for a woman to make coffee?
Yup, it's in the Bible. It says . . . "He-brews
Wednesday, May 30, 2007
Monday, May 21, 2007
TODAY'S INSPIRATION ! HOW TO STAY YOUNG ... ...
1. Throw out non-essential numbers. This includes age, weight, and height. Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay them.
2. Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down. (Keep this in mind if you are one of those grouches!)
3. Keep learning: Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever. Never let the brain get idle. "An idle mind is the devil's workshop." And the devil's name is Alzheimer's!
4. Enjoy the simple things
5. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath. And if you have a friend who makes you laugh, spend lots and lots of time with her/him !
6. The tears happen: Endure, grieve, and move on. The only person who is with us our entire life, is our self. LIVE while you are alive.
7. Surround yourself with what you love: Whether it's family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge.
8. Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.
9. Don't take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, even to a foreign country, but NOT to where the guilt is.
10. Tell the people you love, that you love them - at every opportunity. And if you don't send this to at least four people - who cares? But do share this with someone.
1. Wake Up !!
Decide to have a good day.
"This is the day the Lord hath made;
Let us rejoice and be glad in it."
Psalms 118:24
2. Dress Up !!
The best way to dress up is to put on a smile.
A smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.
"The Lord does not look at the things man looks at.
Man looks at outward appearance,
But the Lord looks at the heart."
I Samuel 16:7
3. Shut Up!!
Say nice things and learn to listen.
God gave us two ears and one mouth,
So He must have meant for us to do twice as much listening as talking.
"He who guards his lips guards his soul."
Proverbs 13:3
4. Stand Up!!
. . . For what you believe in.
Stand for something or you will fall for anything.
"Let us not be weary in doing good; for at the proper time,
We will reap a harvest if we do not give up.
Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good..."
Galatians 6:9-10
5. Look Up !!
. . . To the Lord.
"I can do everything through Christ who strengthens me".
Philippians 4:13
6. Reach Up !!
. . . For something higher.
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
And lean not unto your own understanding.
In all your ways, acknowledge Him, and He will direct your path."
Proverbs 3:5-6
7. Lift Up !!
. . . Your Prayers.
"Do not worry about anything; instead
PRAY ABOUT EVERYTHING."
Philippians 4:6
A POSITIVE THOUGHT
If God had a refrigerator, your picture would be on it.
If He had a wallet, your photo would be in it.
He sends you flowers every spring, and a sunrise every morning.
Whenever you want to talk, He'll listen.
He could live anywhere in the universe, and He chose your heart.
What about the Christmas gift He sent you in Bethlehem;
Not to mention that Friday at Calvary.
Face it, He's crazy about you.
I thought this was mighty special, just like you.
God loves you !!!
Sunday, May 13, 2007
Tuesday, May 8, 2007
Thursday, May 3, 2007
BE A NEW PERSON
Think a new thought,
Dream a new dream,
Be a new person!
Write a new plan,
Build a new life,
Be a new person!
Turn a new page,
Start a new book,
Be a new person!
Make a new friend,
Fill a new need,
Be a new person!
Light a new lamp,
Open a new door,
Be a new person!
Blaze a new trail,
Climb a new mountain,
Be a new person!
Sing a new song,
Dance a new step,
Be a new person!
Affirm a new start,
Chart a new course,
Be a new person!
Saturday, April 28, 2007
Cebu -Bohol- Leyte
Philippines is rich in its natural beauty...
have a taste of it...........
Thursday, April 19, 2007
for best definition of money.
Out of hundreds who competed,
the winner submitted this food for thought:
MONEY is A UNIVERSAL PROVIDER
FOR EVERYTHING
BUT NOT HAPPINESS…
A PASSPORT to EVERYWHERE
BUT NEVER to HEAVEN.
God stands by us when we are down and out...
God guides us when we think of quitting...
God inspires us when we are confused...
GOD KNOWS.
GOD SEES.
GOD BLESSES!
1. Less meat, more vegetables.
2. Less sugar, more vinegar.
3. Less sweets, more fruits.
4. Less eat, more chews.
5. Less clothes, more baths.
6. Less talks, more deeds.
7. Less desires, more sharing.
8. Less worries, more sleep.
9. Less rides, more walks.
10. Less anger, more laughs.
Fr.Ginu Mathilakathu cmi
Tuesday, March 20, 2007
God has made you a giver.Your hands are born openand so is your heart.There may be times when your hands are emptybut your heart is always full.